We all have certain characteristics for the personality development that distinguish us from the rest. A mixture of good and evil, these characteristics determine how we respond to people and circumstances.
A research at the University of Illinois states that once, we can change our personality development characteristics that are already given to us, what we want them to be.
If we want to be our best version then we can change ourselves accordingly. So if you’re ready for the most stunning version of yourself, here are some tips for personality development:
TIPS
1. Know you are incomparable
By comparing yourself to others you lower your self-development. It shortens your personality development and prevents your strengths from thriving. Keep in mind that you and the person you compare with are both unique and incomparable.
2. Be kind to you
Our elders have always taught us to be kind to others but still, many of us are not kind to themselves. Yes, that’s just so true. If you aren’t kind to yourself then others won’t respect you either. And for that there is a saying, “If you want to be respected, then respect yourself first.”
Studies show that self-improvement brings positive features like optimism, wisdom, happiness, positivism and resilience. Emma Sepala, research psychologist at Stanford University, says about self-compassion which further-more implies three stages:
- Recognize that you deserve care and concern like no one else
- Accept that it is part of life to commit errors and failure.
- Be mindful of one’s feelings and emotions.
Compassion for oneself, contrary to popular belief, doesn’t mean letting oneself get off the hook. Rather, it means taking corrective, albeit self-critical, actions.
3. Give room to imperfection
Individuals and circumstances aren’t always in line with your ideal framework. Often what excites and enrages ultimately diminishes the strength of their personality development. To find your peace amid the world’s imperfections, even if you try to bring about change.
4. Light in mind and heart
Do not think too much, and do not over-analyze at all. Never allow any negativity like shame, anger, jealousy or greed to remain in your consciousness for a long time to come. Instead, learn to take it easy; forgive easily as soon as you pop up, and leave complaints against people. Having light in your heart and mind makes you feel happy from within. And who doesn’t like happiness people?
5. Stay warm and friendly
We all like the people that we can talk to easily. No one is fond of reacting with a straight face. So, just learn how to make things soft. Flash out those that smile more frequently. Be friendly, ready to share and be of assistance.
6 Does more style stuff
Doing styled stuff adds zing to the personality development. Working with passion and a quiet mind is the secret to doing stuff in style. So when you are working on something, let nothing distract you by putting all your energy into it. So relax too.
7. Keep the breath calm
Development of a person’s personality development is strengthened by remaining calm. However, it can be hard to stay calm when you have a terrible headache and an immediate deadline to meet. Breathing power is harnessed in such situations. Once you realize this, your stress will diminish!
Ankita Sharma 